180+ ‘Would You Rather?’ Questions For Couples: The Best Date Night Idea!

‘Would You Rather?’, besides all, is a great way to check your partner’s limits, and get to know all their preferences. We can’t wait to present dozens of meaningful questions, divided into categories, which will make it easier for you to pick. It’s up to you if you want to take turns answering questions, or both answer the same ones.

• Silly Questions;
• Casual Questions;
• Relationship-related questions;
• Deep questions ;
• Flirty Questions;
• Intimacy questions;
• Windup;

Silly Questions

Besides making your partner pick between two things, I bet you also wanna have some good laughs! With our silly questions, you’ll choose one among two hilarious, out-of-mind things or situations, which we doubt you’ve ever thought of…

1. Would you rather be invisible or read people’s minds?
2. Would you rather have gum stuck in your hair, or have a giant cockroach?
3. Would you rather be the only drunk person at a party or the only one that’s sober?
4. Would you rather be itchy for the rest of your life, or be sticky?
5. Would you rather be covered in hair, or have no hair at all?
6. Would you rather have a giraffe or a donkey as your only transportation mode for the rest of your life?
7. Would you rather be shut in a room full of spiders or snakes?
8. Would you rather have bad gas for the rest of your life or a bad mouth smell?
9. Would you rather be the best-looking person in a room, or the funniest one?
10. Would you rather admit to a group that you clogged a toilet, or admit that you farted? 
11. Would you rather be pretty but stupid, or smart but ugly?
12. Would you rather wear the underwear for a week or the same socks for a whole month?
13. Would you rather eat only green vegetables for the rest of your life, or be forced to watch Keeping Up With The Kardashians every day?
14. Would you rather smell like fish whenever you go out of the water, or smell like poop every time you go out of the toilet?
15. Would you rather let everything on your phone be public (including search history), or never use a phone again?
16. Would you rather go on Love Is Blind or Love Island?
17. Would you rather wear a cowboy hat every day or fairy wings?
18. Would you rather be attacked by a lion or a shark?
19. Would you rather wake up in underwear in class, or at a relative’s funeral?
20. Would you rather be allergic to the sun, or allergic to sweat?
21. Would you rather lose all your money or all your possessions?
22. Would you rather have a cat with a human face or a dog with human paws?
23. Would you rather be forced to dance every time you hear music, or forced to sing along to every song?
24. Would you rather find out your partner eats ants or steals other people’s clothes?
25. Would you rather eat a whole jalapeno, or drink a full bottle of mustard?
26. Would you rather go on a date with someone who doesn’t stop talking, or doesn’t stop texting?
27. Would you rather not brush your teeth or not shower for a whole week?
28. Would you rather poop in a toilet at a party knowing you’ll clog it, or poop in the backyard?
29. Would you rather get a face tattoo of something you choose, or a tattoo someone else chose randomly, but in a discreet area?
30. Would you rather eat spaghetti through a straw, or blended into a smoothie?
31. Would you rather never understand what your parents are saying, or only understand 50% of what your boss is saying?
32. Would you rather have 3 hands or 3 legs?

Casual Questions

Well, casual is the list of questions that do not belong to either funny or personal questions. They deal with random thoughts, preferences, and experiences. Yes, these questions will most likely help you keep the conversations alive, even if you’re on the first date. 

1. Would you rather go skiing or surfing?
2. Would you rather know how you’ll die, or when you’ll die?
3. Would you rather be immortal or have 9 lives?
4. Would you rather believe only in fate, or only in coincidence?
5. Would you rather die before me or after me?
6. Would you rather only be able to shout, or only be able to whisper?
7. Would you rather be rich or famous?
8. Would you rather lose the ability to speak, or to read?
9. Would you rather work a job that doesn’t pay much, but helps a lot of people, or a job that isn’t morally fair, but pays a lot of money?
10. Would you rather have the ability to control water or fire?
11. Would you rather know all capitals of the world or all currencies of the world?
12. Would you rather lose all the money you’ve received this year or all the memories you’ve made?
13. Would you rather have weird dreams every night, or never dream again?
14. Would you rather be unable to use social media or search engines for the rest of your life?
15. Would you rather have the ability to speak to animals, or know all people’s thoughts?
16. Would you rather travel into the past or the future with your partner?
17. Would you rather watch a movie alone, or dine by yourself?
18. Would you rather give up your phone, or give up sweets?
19. Would you rather do a couple’s photoshoot session, or make a scrapbook?
20. Would you rather experience the world beginning or ending?
21. Would you rather have a house cleaner or a personal chef?
22. Would you rather win a million-dollar jackpot, or never have to pay rent again?
23. Would you rather watch The Office for the rest of your life, or never watch any series again?
24. Would you rather die in 50 years with lots of regrets, or in 20 years with no regrets?
25. Would you rather be a talented artist or a genius mathematician?
26. Would you rather date someone who is super shy, or too talkative? 
27. Would you rather stay up late, or wake up early?
28. Would you rather go to the same good beach every year, or explore new spots?
29. Would you rather have a water fight or a food fight with your partner?
30. If there will ever be a zombie apocalypse, would you rather be a zombie or one of the few people remaining on earth?
31. Would you rather ride a camel or a donkey, talking about long distances?

Relationship-Related Questions

This is your chance to ask everything you’ve ever doubted, or understand what your partner prefers, just so you can get the best out of your relationship, and connect more resounding. After going through these questions, your love life will blossom.

1. Would you rather have a romantic picnic, or go to a fancy dinner?
2. Would you rather be with someone who is so shy and never speaks their mind up, or someone who is very direct, but offensive at times?
3. Would you rather your partner did only one giant surprise in a year, or do small gestures every day?
4. Would you rather have no children or 10 children?
5. Would you rather dress up for a date, or watch Netflix in pajamas?
6. Would you rather marry someone you have no feelings for or someone you’ve just met?
7. Would you rather have a bad relationship when things are good in the bedroom, or a good relationship when there isn’t any spice?
8. Would you rather lie and not hurt your partner, or tell the truth but hurt them?
9. Would you rather kiss on the first date, or wait for a few dates?
10. Would you rather date an extrovert, or an introvert?
11. Would you rather date someone stable and safe or someone who’s adventurous and risky?
12. Would you rather just get a marriage license, or have a huge wedding inviting people you don’t love?
13. Would you rather receive flowers or a handmade gift?
14. Would you rather be the couple everyone is jealous of, or be the one all other couples want to be friends with?
15. Would you rather forget your anniversary or your lover’s birthday?
16. Would you rather get a hug every day, or a kiss every day?
17. Would you rather have a traveling fund or an emergency fund?
18. Would you rather drink for no reason, or play a couples’ drinking game?
19. Would you rather your s.o. be clingy or jealous?
20. Would you rather write a love letter, or get a love letter?
21. Would you rather never make love, or never find love?
22. Would you rather wear your partner’s underwear, or go out in no underwear?
23. Would you rather be with someone who’s completely selfless and forgets about themselves or someone who’s selfish?
24. Would you rather go on a cute brewery tour or a winery tour with your lover?
25. Would you rather watch a movie in the cinema, or go to a drive-through movie?
26. Would you rather go dance at a party with your partner, or have a walk watching the sunset?
27. Would you rather be single forever, or in a committed relationship with someone unfaithful?
28. Would you rather your partner be able to control your memories or your thoughts?
29. Would you rather adopt a cat or a dog, so you and your partner can consider it as your kid?
30. Would you rather take a walk to the beach with your soulmate, or cuddle on your favorite couch?

Deep Questions To Ask Your Partner

Since communication is the key, you may want to share your thoughts and fears about your future, including personal ones, and relate to your relationship. You will probably get to know another version of your s.o., and we think that’s the best part of it <33 

1. Would you rather have more time or more money?
2. Would you rather be a leader or a follower for the rest of your life?
3. Would you rather have a huge imagination or a photographic memory?
4. Would you rather achieve all of your goals but forget about family, or have all the time for the family but do nothing about your job and dreams?
5. Would you rather be with someone who’s the life of the party, or with someone shy?
6. Would you rather live in a world where there’s no crime or in a world where there’s no privacy?
7. Would you rather have a stronger physical connection with your partner or an emotional one?
8. Would you rather be in a relationship where your partner is emotionally unavailable, or emotionally unstable?
9. Would you rather be trapped together in a jungle or a haunted house?
10. Would you rather have the ability to change the future or the past?
11. Would you rather get a major pay rise, or move to your dream city?
12. Would you rather be loved or respected?
13. Would you rather be smarter than average or stronger than average?
14. Would you rather be with someone who always tries to improve and change you, or with someone who accepts you as you are?
15. Would you rather be in a relationship where you both have the same goals or in one you have different goals but encourage each other?
16. Would you rather live in a world where everyone ignores you, or in a world where everyone is mean to you?
17. Would you rather have no taste, or be colorblind?
18. Would you rather have no emotion, or feel everything too deeply?
19. Would you rather let your parents go through your search history or your boss?
20. Would you rather ask your partner for help, or figure it out on your own?
21. Would you rather be in lust forever, or be in love forever?
22. Would you rather be in a relationship where you and your partner have the same social circle, or in one where you have different friends?
23. Would you rather have a partner who is very creative or very logical?
24. Would you rather get to forget your worst memory, or et to remember your best memory forever?
25. Would you rather show affection through words or physical touch?
26. Would you rather be your partner’s first love or their last?
27. Would you rather lose your sight or your memories?
28. Would you rather only be able to cry in front of people, or only be able to cry alone?
29. Would you rather your partner love your partner more than you love them, or love your partner more than they love you?
30. Would you rather have only 2 best friends or 20 good friends?

Flirty Questions

After we’ve dealt with these kinds of ‘serious’ questions, it’s time to share some love. Flirty questions are perfect for you to understand your lover’s love language, their favorite way of flirting, and the way love impacts them. It’s okay if you cry while answering these touchy, heart-warming ones…

1. Would you rather be the big spoon or the small spoon?
2. Would you rather have a sexy shower or a sexy bath?
3. Would you rather receive forehead kisses or cheek kisses for the rest of your life?
4. Would you rather receive no nudes at all, or have your phone full of nudes?
5. Would you rather kiss in the dark, or kiss in the rain?
6. Would you rather keep it traditional, or try to role-play?
7. Would you rather cuddle and watch a movie, or play Strip Poker?
8. Would you rather have a passionate one-night stand or a slow-burn relationship?
9. Would you rather make love with the lights on or off?
10. Would you rather make love at a family gathering, or in public?
11. Would you rather be at the top or the bottom?
12. Would you rather flirt with a text, or with a sensual picture?
13. Would you rather be always surprised in bed, or always know what’s coming?
14. Would you rather realize you’ve accidentally sent a sext to your boss, or your in-laws?
15. Would you rather your partner be very experienced in bed, or have no experience at all?
16. Would you rather have an intimate date or a group date with your besties?
17. Would you rather go on a date with your partner’s parents, or with your parents?
18. Would you rather have a deep conversation or a hot makeout session?
19. Would you rather give a lap dance, or receive a lap dance?
20. Would you rather make out with your partner’s ex or your ex’s partner?
21. Would you rather never find love, or never make love?
22. Would you rather give a sensual massage, or receive one?
23. Would you rather sext, or talk dirty in person?
24. Would you rather be submissive, or dominant?
25. Would you rather have a passionate kiss or a steamy makeout?
26. Would you rather try a new intimate game, or keep things simple?
27. Would you rather receive flowers or chocolate?
28. Would you rather have a great sex life but not get along well, or get along great but rarely make out?
29. Would you rather have to kiss every person you meet, or never be able to kiss your partner again?
30. Would you rather be intimate 5 times a day, or once a week?

Intimacy Questions

Let’s upgrade the flirty questions, to something more affectionate: sexual questions. Since this is an essential part of all relationships, we’re pretty sure these questions will help you discuss everything related to your intimate life & experiences, and why not even lead to action! 

1. Would you rather let your partner lick whipped cream off your body, or you lick it off their body?
2. Would you rather tie your partner to the bed, or let them tie you?
3. Would you rather watch your parents’ sex tape, or let them watch yours?
4. Would you rather prioritize speed or performance?
5. Would you rather be on the top, or at the bottom for the rest of your life?
6. Would you rather have more foreplay or more roleplay?
7. Would you rather cuddle after, or do something else?
8. Would you rather your partner be noisy or quiet?
9. Would you rather let him/her use a toy on you, or you use a toy on them?
10. Would you rather have a box full of sex toys, or full of sexy lingerie?
11. Would you rather be caught making out, or masturbating?
12. Would you rather have orgasms 10 times a day, or 1 time a month?
13. Would you rather touch yourself in the presence of your partner, or in private?
14. Would you rather swallow or spit?
15. Would you rather make out with someone who has a great body, or someone who has great skills in bed?
16. Would you rather have oral sex forever, or never have oral sex again?
17. Would you rather play a striping game, or keep it straightforward?
18. Would you rather your partner wore something sexy, or wore nothing at all?
19. Would you rather do it in a dirty hotel bed, or a public restroom?
20. Would you rather make love for five minutes or five hours?
21. Would you rather have early-morning lovemaking or late-night lovemaking?
22. Would you role-play a fantasy, or have a real-life threesome?
23. Would you rather be slathered in oil or chocolate?
24. Would you rather do the spanking, or get spanked?
25. Would you rather make love against the wall or in bed?
26. Would you rather be caught making love by your kids, or by your in-laws?
27. Would you rather be the passive or the aggressor?
28. Would you rather give a lap dance in private, or receive one in public?
29. Would you rather be dirty in the bedroom or super romantic?
30. Would you rather bring a third person to the bedroom, or let your partner cheat on you?

Windup

Do you know what we adore most about these questions? They are a blast anywhere they’re played: during a long car ride, eating dinner, on a date night, or whatever private moment. Besides all the fun they bring, these questions will for sure bond you two way deeper, and create the strongest connection you’ve had.