Ever Heard Of ‘He Said, She Said’?- The Bridal Showers’ Must Have Game!

Maybe we have to stop with these bridal & bachelorette games… One day…. Yes, one day we will, but definitely not now!

Have you ever gone to a bachelorette and it kinda screamed boring? Why could that happen? Well, in all likelihood it was because there were no games played. Specifically, because there was no ‘He Said She Said’ game. So, just a gentle reminder, if you’re ever planning your bachelorette or one lovely person of yours, please, do not forget to add this pretty game. 

‘He Said She Said’ is a game all about questions, and seeing how well the close people know the bride & the groom. Most of the time, it is played at a common party for both the couple, but however, works incredibly fine even as a bridal shower party game. Since its main ‘ingredient’ is the questions, we made a special list for you. Go through them and pick your favorite ones. They’re just as special as the married-to-be couple is!

Also, when we’re talking about bridal parties and bachelorettes and stuff, don’t forget you also have the party game Bachelorettes Against Decency!

Most Asked Questions About ‘He Said, She Said’

• Does it have hard instructions to follow?
• Absolutely not. No complicated rules at all, unless you make it complicated with any extra rules, or who knows!
• What’s the age range for the game?
• It all depends on you. If you choose to buy the game, it’s usually for all ages. But, you can also make your own questions, and the content choice is up to you!
• How many questions are enough?
• Your preferences matter a lot, of course, but we’d say 20 questions are enough. Not too few, but not too many, because that can get boring for your guests.
• Is the game flexible when it comes to the number of players?
• Yes, and that’s what we really like. You can play with as many people as you want to start from 2 ( 2 more people except the soon-to-be-married couple);
• How do you play, in teams, or individually?
• Both ways. It all depends on the number of players and how you want to play it. If you want to have a competition between the bridesmaids & groomsmen, play in teams!
• It is a game for a bride’s bridal shower/bachelorette only, right?
• Nah, you got it wrong. It works great with both genders, the groom deserves some fun too! Actually, it works best if there’s a common party for the bride & groom!

‘He Said, She Said’ Game Instructions

First things first, does it have a specific age range? I mean, can everyone play it? Now look, if you’re making your own game, you set the age range. Means, that if you want to make it dirty and all that, you use dirty questions. 

But, if you’re playing with, let’s say, with members of your family in law, and some teenagers or something, it’s obvious you should use clean questions, you know, you don’t want to embarrass yourself, do ya? 

Straight to the point, first, you make the questions list (or you simply just get an already made one, and you don’t spend your precious time & creativity on it). 

We think the best number of questions is 20, but, if you want, you can use more. There’s no problem!

You can either divide all the guests in teams, some ideas might be, for example, the bridesmaids in one team, and the groomsmen in the other, or, the bride’s side & and the groom’s side, you divide them randomly, or basically, anyhow you want. 

On the other hand, you can also play individually. You compete with each other to see who knows the bride & the groom best. Here’s the thing: If you’re having a bride’s bridal shower, of course, it’s gonna be a competition between all the girls. 

But… But! It works just as great in a groom’s bro-dal shower, or even better (our favorite) in a common party (you know, we’re talking about the bride & groom).

Next, you give your guests some minutes, 5-10 minutes (depending on the number of questions), to fill the paper. 

Obviously, if you’re playing in teams, 1 paper for each team, if you’re playing individually, 1 paper for each player, we know you know that!

We’ll show you an example later on, and you’ll see that on the left side of the paper, you can read the questions, while, on the other side, meaning, the right one, are the lips and mustaches, which symbolize the bride & the groom. 

So, there’s the statements, and you have to guess who said (or would have said) that statement, by circling the lips (for the bride) and the mustaches (for the groom).

When the timer stops, you read everyone’s answers, and then you & your partner (if you’re both playing), answer every question, this is how everything is transparent! 

Ps. Don’t forget to announce the winner!

How To Play ‘He Said She Said’

‘He Said She Said’ is a game where all guests should guess if the bride or the groom relates more to a statement. On the other hand, this could also be played in-between the couple, to check if they remember important details about each other. However, we think it’s always more fun when more people are included.

The game is recommended to be played by 2 or more people (excluding the bride & groom), of all ages, since all the content is safe. To begin with, start by making your own paper (using Canva or similar apps), and writing questions on them. 

If that looks complicated to you, you can also purchase our ‘He Said She Said’ ready papers for only $4.95, print as many as you need, and you’re good to go. The good thing is that you can also customize your questions when you order the game from our shop.

Typically, there should be 10 to 15 questions in the papers. Give everyone one paper with the questions on it, including the bride & the groom. Tell everyone that they should only circle the symbols (in our case, the mustache and the lips), to tell who they think said/done specific things. When everyone writes down their answers, make sure you (the bride & groom) check everyone’s answers and see who knows you best. 

This may also be considered a competition between the groom’s side and the bride’s groom. FYI, the game doesn’t necessarily need to be played in bachelorette or any before-wedding party. It can be played anywhere where you want to see how well you know a couple: a birthday party, engagement, and so on.

We would recommend you make a symbolic prize for the winner of the game, a.k.a, the person who knows you best. To make it even better, take some drinks with you, and make your personalized Bachelorette CAH T-Shirts. 

Romantic ‘He Said She Said’ Questions

Here’s a list of questions to make them both cry 🙂 They’re very romantic and personal, and I bet are things that every couple takes care of.

1. It was I who made the first move;
2. I was the first to say ‘I love you’;
3. I proposed to my partner;    
4. I plan all of our date nights;
5. My love language is cuddling;
6. I initiated our first kiss;
7. I want to have more than 3 kids;
8. I am the romantic one in our relationship;
9. I make more gifts;
10. The first thing I noticed in my partner was his/her eyes;
11. I was always the biggest flirt;
12. I like being the cry baby;
13. When we started dating I thought “How did I pull her/him off”;
14. Our first date is my favorite date;
15. I am more excited about the wedding;
16. I forget easier;
17. I’m the first to say ‘I’m sorry’ after a fight;
18. I think my partner’s music taste is way better than mine;
19. I always notice the little details;
20. I mentioned marriage first;
21. My partner is the most tolerant;
22. I fell in love first;
23. I immediately told my family that I’m going to marry him/her right after meeting;
24. I gotta admit it, I’m the jealous one;
25. I love the nicknames he/she gave me;
26. He/she is a whole package;
27. I will cry on our big day;
28. I hope our kids have her/his eyes;
29. Man, I still get butterflies;
30. I never believed in love at first sight, but my partner proved me wrong;
31. I wish we were married years ago;

Funny ‘He Said, She Said’ Questions

To go a bit off the corners, funny questions always work. Everyone feels more comfortable and it’s a cute energizer for all the guests. Why not see the couple from another point of view?

1. I wear the pants of our relationship;
2. I take longer to get ready;
3. I have the best dark jokes;
4. My in-laws are crazier than my partner’s;
5. I think he/she will kill us when driving;
6. My partner’s very bad at giving directions;
7. He/she is very similar to my celebrity crush;
8. I take longer to shower
9. I am the Monica of our relationship (the clean freak of Friends);
10. I make the bed better;
11. I forget about some important dates;
12. I suck at making gifts;
13. My partner uses more toilet paper than I do;
14. I spend money like water;
15. I think I’m the drama queen;
16. I refuse to admit that it’s my fault;
17. I will take care of the spiders in our house;
18. I have no friends except my partner;
19. No matter what, I’m always right;
20. I don’t want to talk to my partner the first hour after I wake up;
21. I love breakfast in bed (who doesn’t though?);
22. I have more red flags than him/her;
23. I steal the covers when sleeping;
24. My partner can’t dance. Sorry;
25. I’ll dance my heart off at our wedding party;
26. I enjoy our couples card games more than I thought I will;
27. He/she doesn’t have to wake that early every single morning;
28. I will spoil our kids the most;
29. I am the mean one to other people;
30. I would like him/her to never leave the house;
31. I never admit I’m jealous;
32. My friends tell me I over talk about my partner every time we go out;
33. I always take selfies;
34. I tell my partner when his/her feet stink;
35. He/she snores the loudest;
36. I can’t remember my partner’s clothes size;
37. It’s me, I’m the picky eater;
38. I see dreams about him/her cheating, and get mad at them;
39. Guys, I’m the big spoon;
40. My partner talks more than me;
41. We invited too many people to our wedding;
42. He/she spends more money on clothes than I do;
43. I cry when watching sad movies;

‘He Said She Said’ Questions About Personal Traits

Besides knowing how 2 people are as a couple, it’s always important knowing what their personality traits are. By comparing them, you’ll see what characters both the bride and the groom have.

1. I am more stubborn;
2. My partner is more patient;
3. I take care of details;
4. I love organizing things, including our wedding;
5. I try to save more money;
6. He/she is way more creative than I am;
7. I get ready in 5 minutes;
8. I am a better driver;
9. I’m looking forward to changing my job;
10. I regret easier;
11. Job qualifications & school are always on top of my priorities;
12. I get stressed easier;
13. I cook more & better food;
14. I don’t like eating out often;
15. I wish my partner had more free time;
16. I am more adventurous;
17. Sometimes I want to have some time alone;
18. I am more introverted than him/her;
19. He/she makes decisions faster;
20. I make more money;
21. I get mad at little things;
22. My partner is more into astrology than I am!;
23. I will be the overprotective parent;
24. I am more shy;
25. I am more likely to do the chores;
26. My partner is a workaholic;

Question Ideas To Make Your Own Game

DIY stuff is always fun. Well, for me at least… I know there are some lazy people out there, but, don’t quit, we’ll show a PDF version later for you! 

Here are some cute, funny questions if you want to make ‘He Said, She Said’:

1. For me, it was love in first sight;
2. I can’t really remember our first date;
3. I always get mad for little things;
4. I initiated our first kiss;
5. I’m more likely to hold grudges for 2 days in a row!;
6. My in-laws made me blush when I first met them;
7. I’ll never answer my kids when they ask: How are babies made?;
8. I still don’t like our wedding date;
9. I am a better dancer;
10. My partner’s a better driver;
11. I definitely have the crazier family;
12. I like having breakfast in bed;
13. I take longer to shower;
14. I’m the biggest flirt;
15. I has all 5s at school;
16. I’ll probably run out of money soon;
17. I say ‘I love you’ and ‘sorry’ more often;
18. I’m very nervous about the wedding;
19. I still haven’t packed anything for our honeymoon;
20. I am the most jealous one, I don’t regret it!

Ps. feel free to add any question you want, you can also add something personal which can be harder to guess, but also tells a lot about you two!

In What Other Ways Can You Play It?

Get the printable version. We love it. It saves much time, and it costs so little money. You can get a printable ‘He Said, She Said’ version at our shop, for a price of only $4.95, which is definitely competitive!

Getting more printable games is good because that will make Bachelorette fun.

The design is pretty cute, and the questions are very heartwarming! All you have to do is print as many games as you want, and have fun playing it.

You don’t have to deal with all that, you know, find the questions, write them, oh, made a mistake, edit it… It’s all ready to play!

Turn it into a drinking game. Drinking makes everything way better. I mean, this game is awesome, but why not add some shots when we can (you know, if you’re all above the allowed-to-drink age).

What you can do is make the losing team( or the loser, if playing individually), drink as many shots as the questions they answer wrong. You can apply this ‘rule’ to all the players, or teams, or just to the losers, as a punishment! 

Film/ record the answers. We globally know that the bachelorette (or bridal party), and all that pre-wedding stuff, is a couple’s favorite period. They love keeping an eye on everything and taking photos and all that to remind every detail.

That’s why, after everyone has written down their answers, we’d recommend you to film the couple’s answers, because this is how they’ll watch it after several years(or when they become elders), and they’ll probably start crying…

Our Final Word: Is ‘He Said, a She Said’ A Good Bridal Shower Party Game?

You still doubting that? Of course it is worth it… 

What are its strong points? Well, it is a unisex game, I mean, works great for both bride & groom, can be played by any number of players you want, you can remove or add your own ideas to the game, you can get a ready PDF version, tells the guests a lot about you, and, last but not least, it’s such a great memory! 

To add the sparkle, you can use the ‘special’ instructions, you know, just as turning the game into a drinking game, or filming the answers (which is the cutest thing of ‘em all)!

Ps. If you’re the bride and you’re struggling with the dress code, check the bachelorette T-shirts. We know you’re taking care of so many things! 

Congrats on your wedding. I’ll tell you the secret of a happy marriage. It remains… a secret to all!